“I wish I’d had this book when I was starting a Dharma Community 16 year ago. It might have saved us a lot of heartache and confusion. Caverly has taken on issues that require courage and the ability to address painful and often avoided topics without turning away. Caverly comes from a caring, and badass, place of wanting us all to embrace the possibility of freedom through the lens of social issues that are often not addressed in spiritual communities because bypassing is a popular spiritual forte. I hope that all existent and new communities use this as their wellspring for advice and woodshedding toward liberation. We all need help. This is the help we have been waiting for.”